Mary Loyer: Founder of Red Lipstick Inc.

Mary Loyer: Founder of Red Lipstick Inc.

Welcome Ladies! As a Speaker and Relationship Coach, I will show you a new perspective on how to be confident woman as bold as red lipstick! If you've ever been frustrated by the men in your life or felt overwhelmed trying to find your own balance and harmony, you have come to the right place for some answers!

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Smiling-ManGrowing up, I remember my Mom giving me relationship advice about how to find a man that would treat me like a Queen. I valued her insight so much, as I know she always wanted the best for me. I remember at the time, thinking to myself: "Well, if he is going to treat me like a queen, how should I treat him?" Now that I’m in a relationship in which I feel so loved and cared for, I find myself really wanting to give back to him. I love doing even the smallest things to have him feel appreciated even if it’s telling him how much I appreciate him fixing the sub-woofer in my car.  I love the way he smiles when he feels appreciated.  I notice how much more he seems to want to do for me when I appreciate him. 

I recently read an amazing article written by a man who talks about five easy ways to make your man smile. Click on the link below for the full article. Try any of these and see how quickly your man seems to smile and be happier. You might even find him being more responsive to you and your needs.

What kind of relationship advise did your Mom give you growing up?  I have heard so much wisdom over the years from  mothers and grandmothers I come in contact with.  Feel free to go to my site  and click on ASK MARY, to send me your stories and questions. I can answer them on my next blog post. Your stories help the rest of us learn so much!

Five Easy Ways to Make Your Man Smile


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women-laughingHave you ever laughed so hard, you couldn’t breathe?  That’s a good sign that perhaps you were experiencing humor therapy.  Research has shown health benefits of laughter ranging from strengthening the immune system, reducing stress, and increasing our endorphins.  Not to mention that it simply feels good!  Is it any wonder that we as women may be attracted to men with a great sense of humor?  How often do you laugh with friends, your children, or with yourself?    Sometimes laughter can be just what the doctor ordered.  I know sometimes when I have many tasks going on at one time, I just need a quick break from it all.  That’s when I love the release of a good giggle!

The next time you have a moment of feeling over-whelmed with your to-do list, try prescribing yourself a good laugh.  Watch a good comedy, read a joke of the day ( , or try finding the humor in whatever challenge you may be facing.  When you notice it, humor can be everywhere.   Notice how instantly your energy may increase and the amazing lift you feel.  If that doesn’t work, you can do like I do, and put on some red lipstick!  Makes me smile every time!


Check out the article below to learn more about the amazing effects of laughter:

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