Mary Loyer: Founder of Red Lipstick Inc.

Mary Loyer: Founder of Red Lipstick Inc.

Welcome Ladies! As a Speaker and Relationship Coach, I will show you a new perspective on how to be confident woman as bold as red lipstick! If you've ever been frustrated by the men in your life or felt overwhelmed trying to find your own balance and harmony, you have come to the right place for some answers!

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Smiling-ManGrowing up, I remember my Mom giving me relationship advice about how to find a man that would treat me like a Queen. I valued her insight so much, as I know she always wanted the best for me. I remember at the time, thinking to myself: "Well, if he is going to treat me like a queen, how should I treat him?" Now that I’m in a relationship in which I feel so loved and cared for, I find myself really wanting to give back to him. I love doing even the smallest things to have him feel appreciated even if it’s telling him how much I appreciate him fixing the sub-woofer in my car.  I love the way he smiles when he feels appreciated.  I notice how much more he seems to want to do for me when I appreciate him. 

I recently read an amazing article written by a man who talks about five easy ways to make your man smile. Click on the link below for the full article. Try any of these and see how quickly your man seems to smile and be happier. You might even find him being more responsive to you and your needs.

What kind of relationship advise did your Mom give you growing up?  I have heard so much wisdom over the years from  mothers and grandmothers I come in contact with.  Feel free to go to my site  and click on ASK MARY, to send me your stories and questions. I can answer them on my next blog post. Your stories help the rest of us learn so much!

Five Easy Ways to Make Your Man Smile


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Ever feel like the man in your life doesn’t compliment you enough or maybe he doesn’t hold your hand when you’d like him to?  A lot of the women I talk to agree that while their husbands and boyfriends may provide nice lifestyles for them, and do nice things for them, they wish they got more compliments and would love their men to tell them how they feel about them.  This got me to thinking – what if as men and women we are speaking different languages when it comes to expressing our love?  One day I asked my boyfriend “how do you know when you are loved?” 

He said he knew he was loved when he was touched, like when his back is scratched or rubbed.  Interestingly, this is also how he shows his love for me.  He  holds my hand, spontaneously kisses me, and is always doing things for me.  I just love it!   I’m so thrilled to hear him purrr when I scratch his back now, as I know what it means to him.  What has your man know that he is loved?  Does he know what it takes for you to know you’re loved?  Maybe he is working over-time to provide you with lavish gifts when all you may want is a love note to say “I love you”, or recognition and appreciation for all you do for him?   Perhaps all he may need to feel loved is a home-cooked meal?  Try asking your man “when he knows he is loved?”  Together you may find out what your love language is.   Are you auditory—and hear expressions of love?  Are you kinesthetic—and you feel expressions of love through touch?  Or perhaps you are visual, and you see expressions of love? 

To get another view of your love language, click on the following  link to the  book “ The 5 Love Languages.”  Take the 30 second quiz to quickly find yours.

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