Mary Loyer: Founder of Red Lipstick Inc.

Mary Loyer: Founder of Red Lipstick Inc.

Welcome Ladies! As a Speaker and Relationship Coach, I will show you a new perspective on how to be confident woman as bold as red lipstick! If you've ever been frustrated by the men in your life or felt overwhelmed trying to find your own balance and harmony, you have come to the right place for some answers!

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WeddingBells The hot pink table-clothes draped the tables with femininity while the spring flowers trickled the scent of beauty throughout the air.  The white folding chairs waited patiently for the ladies who all gathered on a Sunday afternoon to celebrate the coming union of a special woman named Molly and her fiancé, Adrian.  On Sunday, I was one of these ladies overflowing with happiness for my friend Molly at her bridal shower.  As we drank wine, shared a feast, and spoke of Molly’s exciting future, I couldn’t help but wonder—Should it really be exciting?  As a former bride, I now realize that it is really an adventure, and the quality of this amazing  adventure depends on what you put into it.  Marriage is as Marriage does…

I remember fantasizing about my wedding and forgetting all about building a life together.  How many of you have done the same thing and wondered why things didn’t fall into place after the wedding?  We might have viewed our parents, our married friends, or even married people on T.V as role models to know what marriage should be like.  We may have even thought it should be the best day of our life.  But then, if it’s the best, how does the rest of our life look after that?  It seems,  the only two people to consult  is you and your husband to be.  Why not start by being open with each other about what each of you needs in the relationship, and hearing each other out regarding the expectations for your life together after you’re married.

Imagine creating the adventure you want—not perfect, not fantasy—but rather an unexpected adventure filled with love, laughter, and many twists and turns along the way.  I’m so thrilled for Molly and Adrian, as they embark on this journey of discovery together.  Perhaps you too will think of marriage a little differently, and imagine creating your own adventure, beyond your own perfect wedding day.

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