Mary Loyer: Founder of Red Lipstick Inc.

Mary Loyer: Founder of Red Lipstick Inc.

Welcome Ladies! As a Speaker and Relationship Coach, I will show you a new perspective on how to be confident woman as bold as red lipstick! If you've ever been frustrated by the men in your life or felt overwhelmed trying to find your own balance and harmony, you have come to the right place for some answers!

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Did you ever plan a vacation, and when you got to your destination, not everything went as you planned?  Maybe the hotel only had rooms with two double-beds, or the weather man completely miscalculated the weather report?  Perhaps your digestive system didn’t cooperate with the foreign food in the country you were in?

Last week, I was reminded of how much vacation can mimic our everyday lives.  I went on a little holiday to Cabo San Lucas  with my boyfriend for a blissful relaxing week on the beach.  Through-out our week in the lovely Sea of Cortez,  we experienced cancellations on our tours, delays on the time-share presentations we sat through, and mosquitoes that liked us a little too much.  The humidity even afforded me the opportunity to sweat more at dinner than I ever have after a strenuous workout!  Wow!

In the midst of it all, I had to laugh.  I thought to myself– How often do we have plans in life for our career, our kids, or our relationships, and sometimes the universe shows us a completely different way? 

At the end of the day, it’s about the journey, as they say, right?  For me, it’s a series of amazing moments when I can witness the beauty in challenges, learn more about myself, and about this beautiful world we live in.  When I experienced my vacation through this perspective, everything changed, and I notice beauty all around.  The gratitude I felt was overwhelming.  Suddenly, I really enjoyed the hot weather, and wished I could stay longer.  I enjoyed every fun moment with my wonderful man.  He even caught one of my vacation moments on video for you…

What if we could live our everyday lives not sweating the small stuff (perhaps literally)?  What if we had a vacation moment of gratitude on a daily basis?  This month, when you experience a challenge that wasn’t part of your plan, perhaps you’ll be curious and see the beauty of how this  may change your journey, and what you might learn from it.  Enjoy!

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